Wednesday, December 17, 2008

圣诞快乐,2009年快乐

圣诞节就要来临了。每年我都会受到缅甸女儿的贺卡。可能你会下一跳,单身的我竟然有一个女儿!什么时候我做了未婚妈妈?

别想太多了朋友,那是我透过世界宣明会领养的女儿 :)

今年的贺卡有一些不一样,包括了我的女儿做的一些小手工,闪闪的,好特别。还有她画的小屋子。



看到她画的小屋子,让我想起了我的童年。我在小时候画的屋子,窗口是比大门高的。而实际上,我真正的家,甚至是大部分的家,窗口的底部是很少会高过大门的顶部的。看起来,似乎小孩子的思想都有一定的共同性。

你呢?你小时候画的屋子,门口和窗口的位置和比例呈对比吗? ;)

7 comments:

skypaul said...

原来的你的女儿是缅甸的。几岁了啊?我的女儿是蒙古的。大概是小学快毕业了。第一次收到她的礼物是我泪流满脸。好感动啊!

Gaik Ling said...

wah lau eh, tian poh, you really very 感性 lar :)
My daughter is from India...eh how come all have daughter no son? hehe...

mk said...

i have a son at india :)

skypaul said...

I actually had had a son before at Equador. I received his drawing but i thought that it was from Mongolia daughter (i didn't see carefully). I was like totally forgot i had had a son in Equador. After few months (i paid quarterly for this son), i met with some crisis (you know, money not enough) and decided to stop one. So LIFO. Equodor kid was out. But months later only i realised that the SON sent me a gift and i not even know that. That made me cried again and feel bad until now. I hope he found a good dad or mum already. This is one of the reason i told me no matter how bad, i cannot give up this daughter. Must make sure she get my sponsor until the project completed. Sadhu Sadhu...

**Shih Nyien** said...

I have a son in Xin Jiang :) Seems like all of us are parents already, haha! MK, you sponsor 2 children, salute you! I ever think of sponsor another one but scare will skip half way, that's why never start until now hehe :D

mk said...

保,我绝对理解你的感受。因为有一阵子当我喘不过气来的时候,也有想过放弃缅甸的女儿。后来不舍得,还是咬紧牙根撑下去。在OLR决定多收印度的孩子时,我挣扎了10分钟,决定了减少自己的娱乐,少唱k,减少午餐外吃,少买衣服鞋子。那种挣扎七上八下的心情到现在还记得。做了这个决定勇往直前以后,反而没有后顾之忧,总之每个月就一定要做一些善事。
我发觉一个方法也蛮管用的。今年年初拿到花红时,就赶快寄360马币给星洲日报的孩童领养计划。一次过解决了,就不用怕结下来帮不了。
sn,我是微不足道的,那些每个月可以奉献至少10%以上薪水于慈善或可以时常当义工的人才真叫人钦佩。

skypaul said...

可以捐给王先生慈善机构吗?交给我就可以了。

其实,600块一年,老实说没什么。但是当我在喘不过气的时候,就会认为这个600块很大。其实,那不过是骗自己。

我现在有帮明年的Relay For Life筹款。如果他们没抛弃我,会叫我帮忙筹办明年三月Relay For Life的点蜡烛之夜。你们要帮忙吗?他们很缺人呢。

Relay For Life是一个cancer awareness project,发起组织是美国癌症协会,在槟城已经进行了几年(三年还是4年)。筹到的款项将交给Hospice。

怎样,敲锣打鼓找人着,来来来。。。

纯粹要捐款的也可以来找我,下限是零,没有上限。