i kena 4D

Read the regulations from http://lconnie.blogspot.com/2007/12/i-kena-4d.html

1.小时候的理想是什么？
Doctor (He he, 天真的童年以为这世界上只有医生和律师才可以当）

2.喜欢雨天还是晴天?为什么?
晴天。Brighter life :)

3.最喜欢的颜色？
White （same with connie）

4.如果有机会的话，你最想对你的他说些什么？
(Not applicable at the moment, wait till he found me :) )

5.你最想去哪个地方？ 为什么？
有我爱的人的地方，哈哈，三条线。

6.最受不了自己哪个缺点？
不会表露真感情。

7.如果有不开心的事情，你会怎么办？
听歌，和家人朋友谈天

8.最害怕失去的东西？
我自己

9.五年内比较现实的目标是什么？
buy house.（same with connie）

10.遇到喜欢的人，你是勇敢表白还是默默关注？
得看喜欢的程度，不排除勇敢表白。

11.说出点你名的人的3个优点。
friendly, cute, hardworking.

12.你希望你的另一半具备的条件是？
养得起我，哈哈。希望他可以包容我，缺点或优点。

13.至今最令你后悔的事是什么？
没有表露真感情，没好好珍惜

14.你最讨厌怎样的人？
口不对心，虚伪

15.你的志愿是什么？
健健康康开开心心活一生

16.最开心的事？
父母看到我考到的好成绩，当年他们开心的表情至今难忘。

17.你吃过最好吃的是什么？
用爱心煮的，如爸妈，姐姐

18.如果能让你实现一个愿望，会是什么？
no need to work but still have income.. haha! （same with connie）

19.如果今天是你最后一天，还有什么事情是你还没做的？
写遗属

20. 觉得人生最重要的事情是什么？
活在当下.

Since I do not have so many friends write blog, here is the short list from me:
1) connie (she already did hahah) 2) sn mu zi 3) kok meng 4) kelly

If you want to change the visible, you must first change the invisible

Excerpt from Secrets of the Millionaire Mind by T. Harv Eker:

"Imagine a tree. Let's suppose this tree represents the tree of life. On this tree there are fruits. In life, our fruits are called our results. So we look at the fruits (our results) and we don't like them; they aren't enough of them, they're too small, or they don't taste good.

So what do we tend to do? Most of us put even more attention and focus on the fruits, our results. But what is it that actually creates those particular fruits>? It's the seeds and the roots that create those fruits.

It's what under the ground that creates what's above the ground. It's what's invisible that creates what's visible. So what does that mean? It means that if you want to change the fruits, you will first have to changed the roots. If you want to change the visible, you must first change the invisible."

Although I have not been thinking of becoming a millionaire, I am just looking for comfortable simple life (I do not know if it requires million of dollar :p ) . But I think, words above applied to all human beings in all situation, no only in terms of money, but also personality and attitude.

Hike to Gasing Hill

Today is Christmas day and one of my activities in KL is hike to Gasing Hill :)

I started the journey from the circled-X sign and use the trail highlighted in blue line. Those are free-hand draw lines and arrows, which may look a bit ‘ugly’ ;)

It’s a natural path and I like it. I heard birds chirping and few different voices of different insects. I also saw few plants which I have not seen before. Maybe I should have followed my parents to the rubber estate more frequent to get know to more about jungle plant and animal :)

It took me 1.5 hours to complete this path. In my opinion, the path I followed is not very tough. It’s not too steep except a short distance at the circle-trail. This is more like a shorten Penang’s Pantai Kerachut hiking trail if you had been there before, a mixture of flat road and steep hike, not so tough as penang hill nor the short Bukit Jambul trail. But I would definitely think this is a nice hiking trail in the city :)

星语

看看天上的星星
它告诉了你什么？

它告诉我
人生
有时明 有时暗
但
还是要坚持下去
不要放弃
闪耀的机会

自己好，让别人也好；让别人好，自己才好

摘自<李居明改运真言>

Live Today

Live Today, not Yesterday nor Tomorrow

but Plan for Tomorrow

Teluk Kumbar Good Friend Restaurant 好友餐馆

Last few weeks my friends and I went to restaurant above for dinner. When we reached, the restaurant is fulled and there are some customer waiting to get a table, not to escorted by the restaurant staff, but customer had to “站台” (a special word in cantonese, if you have no idea, let me know, I will explain further) in order to get a table. Since we were only 3 persons, we can get a table in shorter time. But disappointedly, the captain keep asked us to wait and never come to place our order. In fact, she just entertained customer came in bigger group e.g. 6 people and above.

After another 10 minutes waiting, before we just about to decided to leave, a worker felt unfair to us and helped us to place the order although he is not a captain. After that, we saw the captain scolded him because placing our order. At that time, we felt very disappointed again. This restaurant has been established for few years, but the service provided doesn't seems to be professional and fair.

After this incidence, we ourselves think we will NOT visit that restaurant again if possible.

鸡肉菇-吃过吗？

我自小在乡区长大，也喜欢吃一些野生植物，菌类菇类。

上一次回家，妈妈在橡胶园摘了一些野生鸡肉菇。妈妈说这些菇在下太阳雨后才有，十分难得。它的帽顶有一些黑色的，才是可以吃的。否则，很可能是有毒的菇类哦。

洗煮也有一些技巧哦。

1）用刀轻轻刮去帽顶黑色的部分。
2）然后割掉根部空心的部分，用刀轻轻刮去掉根的外皮。
3）要下锅前，快速的用水洗一洗。千万别放在水里浸。
4）洗好后，剥成4分。千万别再用水洗。准备一些姜丝。
5）锅烧热放油，放姜丝后放剥好的鸡肉菇炒。
6）不用加水，一会儿鸡肉菇里的水会流出来，满多的。除非不太新鲜的，或许你可以选择加少许水。
7）炒熟了，加一些盐或酱油或绍兴酒，美味佳肴就可以上桌了。

幸福摩天轮

你有听过陈奕迅的幸福摩天轮吗？

这首歌流行的时候，我在念大学。当时周末有时间，我都会到姐姐家去。我还记得，我和她一边洗衣服，我一边哼这首歌。原来很多事情，我都渐渐遗忘了，直到有一些相关的事情trigger，才又浮现脑海。难怪科学家说人脑是世界上容量超大的记忆体。

而你呢，这首歌让你想起什么吗？

生命如盛开的花朵

生命如花朵，
小时，就如花的蓓蕾
渐长，丰盛如盛开的艳丽花瓣
无论何种类，活的悠然自得，各自精彩

偶尔，惨遭辣手催花
但
无论如何
不可放弃盛开下去的理由
生命是短暂的
应该让如花般的灿烂
傲视人生

爱回家

和你分享一首蛮有意思的歌曲。

爱回家 - 古巨基

勤力过 捱骂过 如做错 谁又会原谅我
怀念家中被窝
想去躲 这样吃力求什麼
投入过 麻木过 磨炼过 沉闷过 疲累过
其实我进取麼？
时间从未敢蹉跎 赚到几多?
赚到的只是你
能被你温柔无微的照顾
被你那麼在乎
平曰有你纵坏已忘记辛苦

活著有你多好
多麼渺小都变好
躺在平静被铺上漫谈来曰旅途
回到家中便有你多好
一碗暖汤的鼓舞
沾湿我眼睛
有人祈求我归家 来互抱

唯独你 明白我 成就过 谁若说 容易过
曾受了气几多 能听我解释因何 在这被窝
赚到的只是你
能被你温柔无微的照顾
被你那麼在乎
平曰有你纵坏已忘记辛苦

活著有你多好
多麼渺小都变好
躺在平静被铺上漫谈来曰旅途
回到家中便有你多好
一碗暖汤的鼓舞
沾湿我眼睛
有人祈求我归家

自问已经得到
得到你比一切好
躺在平静被铺上望浮云在过路

回到家中便有你多好
张开两臂的鼓舞
沾湿我眼睛
眼前繁华有几好 来互抱

被人记得的感觉，真好

生日当天，收到越洋朋友的生日电话祝贺，和一些替他类型的祝福如sms，热流在心头。

上星期天，收到sam的电话，然后传来好多人的声音，在唱着生日歌，很明显的听到shirley可爱的歌声，陆陆续续传来其他人的声音，如SP, CK 等 :)。虽然我早已经知道他们的聚会，因一些事情不能参加，但还是很surprise，因为没有想到他们竟然会这样做，那时好感动 :)

对于物质，要求并不高，一份贵重的礼物或亲身生日祝福，我会选亲身生日祝福。现在的人太忙了，多东西需要记了，亲身生日祝福对我而言，是比较难能可贵的。

礼轻情义重，或许就是这意思吧 :)

tuesdays with Morrie

Some excerpt from the book tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom

The first tuesday : “Love is the only rational act.”

The second tuesday: “I don’t allow myself any more self-pity than that A little each morning, a few tears, and that’s all.”

The third tuesday: “What if today were my last day on earth.”

The forth tuesday: “Once you learn how to die, you learn how to live.”

The fifth tuesday: “If you don’t have the support and love and caring and concern that you get from a family, you don’t have much at all. Love is so supremely important.”

The sixth tuesday: “But detachment doesn’t mean you don’t let the experience penetrate you. On the contrary, you let it penetrate you fully. That’s how you are able to leave it.”

The seventh tuesday: “You have to find what’s good and true and beautiful in your life as it is now. Looking back makes you competitive. And, age is not a competitive issue.”

The eighth tuesday: “If you’re trying to show off for people at the top, forget it. They will look down at you anyhow. And if you’re trying to show off for people at the bottom, forget it. They will only envy you. Status will get you nowhere. Only an open heart will allow you to float equally between everyone.”

The ninth tuesday: “There are few rules about love and marriage: If you don’t respect the other person, you’re gonna have a lot of trouble. If you don’t know how to compromise, you’re gonna have a lot of trouble. If you can’t talk openly about what goes on between you, you’re gonna have a lot of trouble. And if you don’t have a common set of values in life, you’re gonna have a lot of trouble. And the biggest one: Your belief in the importance of your marriage.”

The tenth tuesday: “The problem is that we don’t believe we are as much alike as we are. Whites and blacks, Catholics and Protestants, men and women. If we saw each other as more alike, we might be very eager to join in one big human family in this world, and to care about that family the way we care about our own.”

The eleventh tuesday: “Forgive yourself. Forgive others. Don’t wait..”

雨季来咯

不止清明时节雨纷纷，在槟城，每逢九皇爷旦辰，农历九月初一至初九可以说是每天接近100%会下雨，万事万灵 :)

生日感想

生日对你来说有什么意义/感想呢?

在佛教里，生日也是母难日，所以这一天应该和家人好好的聚一聚，感谢母亲当年冒着危险辛苦地把我们生下。

以前小的时候，好希望父母可以为自己办生日会，大肆庆祝，热热闹闹的。
到了少年，则希望朋友可以为自己庆祝。或许那都是希望得到家人朋友的注意的年龄吧。好胜的年龄 :p

岁数越大，却喜欢平平淡淡地过生日，和家人朋友聚一聚，吃一餐，感谢我又度过了一个年头。说实在的，生日当天有没有收到礼物对我来说并不重要，只要家人朋友一声祝福，一张贺卡，或一个短讯，一封来电，我就很开心了。现在的人需要记得太多东西，有许多事情需要处理，所以如果一个人可以记得我的生日，我就觉得很满足了。

最近知道一位朋友喜欢在生日当天睡大觉 :O 而你呢，你生日时你希望怎么渡过？

沟通 Art of Life.

人与人之间的沟通，永远都是最高深的其中一门学问。套一位经理曾经说过： Communication with people is an Art, an Art of Life.

爱

张晓风：“无论何时，我最爱的，都是你的笑。”

机缘

一见钟情会发生在你身上吗？我可以蛮肯定它没有发生在我身上。对于感情，向来我都比较后知后觉，比较慢热，也比较内敛。当我发现某某人其实向我暗示好感时，或许已经太迟，错过了机缘。

如果你喜欢一个人，为了让你自己不后悔，请直接告诉她吧。说了，至少你得到一个答案。否则，如果她和我一样是迟钝型的，就白白错失了一个机会。

猜猜以下的译诗是来自哪一首著名诗歌：

Depan katil disinari cahaya bulan
Bagaikan salji di atas lantai
Mendongak kepala terlihat bulan
Menunduk kepala diingati kampung halaman

跟在你身后

喜欢跟在你身后
用同样的步骤
跟你走
有一种依靠的感觉。。。

读书

一本书，并不是把整本书读完，便是好。最重要的，是我们领悟了多少，运用了多少。

一门学问，不算是你的，直到你真正启用它。

What is life?

I am currently reading Tuesdays with Morrie.

I find that a good book to read on, if you are lost in your life, if you are curious on what is life. Life is Love.

十月二日。。。

十月二日，相识的你要走了。。。
只留下kelly effect
朋友 珍重

还记得吗？

还记得曾经让你掉泪的歌吗？
还记得曾经让你感动的事吗？
还记得曾经让你窝心的人吗？
还记得曾经让你欢笑的话吗？
还记得曾经让你期待的约会吗？
还记得曾经让你依靠的肩膀吗？

我们得到了许多，
又忘了许多。

Jalur Gemilang

A view of Dewan Bandaraya KL building on Aug 29, 2007, from Merdeka Square...

Not preferred driving altitude (1)

For a 200m journey between two traffic light, for first 150m route, some drivers speed up to 60 - 70 km/h, then press break pedal hard for next 50m to stop in front of the traffic light. Do they know this will consume more petrol, not environmental friendly and not-wallet-friendly also?

生命是脆弱的

今天早上，传来二大姨逝世的消息。昨晚到今早，一条生命就没有了。

生命是脆弱的，珍惜生命，珍惜身边的人和事。

进步，还是退步了？

有了手机，联络的方式容易了，但见面的次数却少了。
有了洗衣机，洗衣服方便了，但没有了它却不会洗衣了。
有了电视机，娱乐多了，但家人之间的谈话却少了。
有了汽车，交通方便了，但也越来越懒惰走路了。
有了电子游戏机，很多事情都方便了，但我们的小孩却没有了放风筝的童年。
有了飞机，距离拉近了，但人和人之间的距离却远了，你会在机上和你旁边的搭客谈天吗？
有了电脑，可以快速的打字，但不会用手写字了。
有了电灯，生活方便了，但晚上却不睡觉了，赔了健康。

有了科技，到底，我们是进步了，还是，退步了？

Rainbow

昨天和朋友吃晚餐时，看到一个满弧形的彩虹。有人说，可以看到这样的彩虹，象征着幸福与好运。那就祝我们好运，友谊永存吧。

我们该对谁负责？

“先对自己负责，做自己该做的事，才可以对别人负责，帮其他人。”诚如：“先爱自己，才懂得爱别人”

当然，也有破例的时候，就是在爱的领域，对家人，另一半，朋友，你爱的事物。

有时候，我们自顾不暇，也会扑身去为自己爱的人和事赴汤蹈火。这就是爱与牺牲吧。

What animal is this?

Saw this animal at my hometown. My father told me this is called 飞鼠.

What is safe?

Refer to the picture, the expiry date of the tofu written as end of Aug 2007. Few days after I bought in July, one of the tofu changed color, which can be easily spot, the middle one.

I am figuring how to feedback to consumer association, please let me know if you know.

Our life is full with 'chemical' food nowadays.
We get longer lasting food, but we get shorter life.

When you miss someone...

你
曾经思念一个人吗？
有多思念？

当
你以为
时间
已经把思念冲淡。。。
原来
经过15年后
还是会想她

点点滴滴
在脑海里
越来 越清晰

这 原来就是
刻骨铭心
当 你以为
你已经忘了
却
记得更清晰